8 Uncomfy Truths That We All Need to Accept:

1. Happiness is where you are now or nowhere else.

Drop the misconception about happiness.

it's not anew relationship. Not anew job.

Not acompleted goal.

Not anew car.

Until you give up on the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are.

2. Quitting is for winners.

Contrary to popular opinion, quitting is for winners.

Knowing when to quit

Change direction

Leave a toxic situation

Demand more from life

Give up on something that isn't working When to move on

These are very important skills that people who win at life all seem to have.

But don't quit because it's hard. Quit because it sucks.

3. If they really wanted to, they would.

If you apply pressure, they'll do what you want them to.

If you take the pressure off, you'll see what they'd rather do.

Never waste your life fighting for what someone would rather do.

Let them go. Move on. Do better.

4. Taking no risk is the biggest risk.

Making the wrong decision does not imply that you are a failure. You only fail wnen you

stop trying.

You have to risk failure to succeed. You have to risk rejection to be accepted. You have to risk heartbreak to love.

If you're always avoiding risk, you're risking missing out on life.

5. Call yourself out.

The most common reason why people make the same mistakes is that their insecure ego prevents them from taking responsibility for their own bullshit, their own toxic traits, and their own mistakes.

You have to call yourself out. Calling yourself out means, you care more about your future, your progress, and your happiness than just protecting your ego.

6. Closure is your choice. Closure isn't an apology, justice, or answer. That's insecurity.

lf the situation made you feel awful, seeking closure by reopening it is insanity.

Closure isn't something they can give you.

Closure is moving on. Closure is your choice.

7. If you're happy alone, you'll be happier together.

There is no type of affection that can fill the void in a person who doesn't love themselves already.

There is no independence in dependency. There is no personal security in attaching yourself to a secure person.

Until you have a healthy relationship with yourself, you won't make healthy decisions about someone else.

8 Uncomfy Truths That We All Need to Accept: