7 uncensored truths I wish I knew earlier


1. do not spend spend so much time trying to be more physically attractive in order

to just impress your crush rather than making yourself mentally attractive

educate yourself, address your recurring toxic thoughts, deal with your 

insecurities and learn to be happy on your own

that's attractive

2. normalize saying 'NO' without needing to over explain yourself. if someone is 

offended by your boundaries, that's their problem.

the best weight you'll ever loss is the weight of other people's opinion of you

3. don't subscribe to other people's definition of "fun"

fun doesn't have to mean drinking, partying and socialising

fun can be a night in alone, getting lost in books, a deep conversation, a walk,

creating art, playing music, or doing your work

fun is yours ; you define it

4. before you get married

discuss bills, parenting style, credit, debit,, how to deal with family, what belief 

you will be installed in your children traumas, sexual expectations, partner expectations, family health 

history, bucket list, dream home, career and education, political view and whatever else come in mind

love is not enough

5. the age of 15- 30 is golden era of your life. you make friends, lose them too. 

you make mistakes, correct them too. you fall, you fail, you learn, you realise,

you hit reality, you fall in love, you get hurt too. you lose yourself and eventually become stronger

remember these are the best years of your life. you should understand the 

difference between enjoying it and ruining it.

6. heal before having children so your children

don't have to heal from having you as a parent

7. life is not tiring. wanting life to be certain way but not having

the confidence to make it that way, is tiring

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